封閉 負面 狹窄的想法：
１.不可能訪問到的，他那麼忙．．．
２.我不敢去試ㄟ，我從來就沒有打過這種電話．．．
３.可不可以不要>.<
４.訪問他，只會耽擱他的時間
５.我又不是專業的記者，他可能不想見我！
用VOL的思考方式後……=> 開放、正面、廣闊的想法
１.不去嘗試怎麼說訪問不到！試就對了！
２.很多事情都要經歷第一次，不行就多試幾次，一定可以更好的
３.離開自己的舒適圈，不要總是對新的事務直接說no，why not give it a try
４.訪問他說不定有機會讓他想想未曾想過的問題，或是讓他產生新的舞蹈創意，wow那真的太酷了！
５.我本來就不是專業訓練出來的，這是一個新的學習與嘗試，我可以有我自己的訪問風格
那天跟我媽媽說所遇到的挫折，以及在課堂討論進度時所發生的事情，他便問起我打電話的過程：她說，當這種公關、秘書，當然盡可能先把你擋掉，要不然行程根本排不進去，你有沒有說清楚你所需要的短短10~15分鐘呢？有啊！我覺得她好急著把我打發掉，讓我覺得很難為，感覺她很忙，不敢多打擾她。老師則說，我可以給自己一個目標，打100通再宣告放棄，現在才三通而已，還有很多機會呢！但是打這種電話真的需要很大的勇氣，結果卻令人喪氣，我真的很難過，我覺得不是我熱望不夠，但對我來說，要突破自己真的好難，我一項不是這種公關型的人，想想想見見林懷民也不會進一步想到說可以試著打電話去訪問他，這種念頭是從來沒有的！現在竟然真的要實際這麼做，這是我從來想都不感想的！因此很多VOJ就會跑出來否定自己的能力，讓自己不斷退縮了回來，不願意嘗試。
電話中，mommy也問我，你知道那位小姐姓什麼了嗎？啊？原來，其實我並不知道許多講電話的基本禮貌，儘管必恭必敬的報上了自己的姓名，但是與人溝通的那分疏離感卻未能消除，有時覺甚至得自己太過客氣，因而難以跟接觸的人熟稔起來，這些都是需要改進的，有沒有可能真的打到接線的秘書都認識我了呢？其實說不定他並不像我想像的哪麼不近人情，她也是別人的媽媽，回頭或許也要跟自己的孩子談這些與人接洽的習慣與禮節，但在工作中就不得不表現的嚴肅些了。這樣想想不覺中覺得好些了。
只是不習慣以生澀的樣子表現自己，我不喜歡出糗，希望表現出來的是有所準備的，但隨著需要經歷的事情越來越多，很多事情並非過往經驗所能涵蓋的，因此真的開始必須面對用生澀的樣子來迎接這些完全毫無經驗的事情上時，還真令人緊張與恐懼，可不可以不要，其實是源自於心中在想說：可不可以等我準備好了再說……但是這等待的過程要是沒有推力或是壓力，通常都很漫長；再這堂課開始的時後，聽老師說將由實地的由感受自我變革的困難來了解組織變革的難度，覺得真是太棒了，沒想到會是一個這樣的挑戰自己的過程，我想我真的很深刻的在體驗變革的困難了！
想想其實以學習的態度視之，則會了解到：碰釘子、遇到困難是正常的，過程中我們可以尋求協助，向老師同學家人徵詢意見，當然若可以找到有人給我們無限的支持與鼓勵就更好了。自己隨時也應該保持在一種motive的狀態！太嚴肅或是負面的想法往往會阻礙向前的衝勁；雖然對我來說很難，但是有時豁達的看待自己出糗，會突然有一種傻傻的快樂，發現可以釋懷很多事情；知道可以不需要太過嚴肅面對所有的事情，偶爾容許自己出點差錯，像是少了一根筋一樣，生活頓時感覺輕鬆很多～
2006年11月26日 星期日
2006年11月23日 星期四
牽掛 - 芝麻與龍眼
牽掛 芝麻與龍眼
數著片片的白雲 我離開了你
卻把寸寸的相思 我留給了你
牽掛的是紅著眼的你
放心不下也是孤獨的你
數著片片的白雲 我離開了你
卻把寸寸的相思 我留給了你
牽掛的是紅著眼的你
放心不下也是愛哭的你
數著片片的楓葉 我離開了你
卻把寸寸的芳心 我留給了你
牽掛的是遠離著的你
放心不下也是孤獨的你
數著片片的楓葉 我離開了你
卻把寸寸的芳心 我留給了你
牽掛的是遠離著的你
放心不下也是孤獨的你
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常常從家裡返回高雄的時候想起這首歌
還有人聽過芝麻與龍演的歌嗎?
那是屬於我的民歌...
http://laker168.myweb.hinet.net/0598/data01.htm
http://blog.sina.com.tw/5785/article.php?pbgid=5785&entryid=8848
我找不到這首的音樂
數著片片的白雲 我離開了你
卻把寸寸的相思 我留給了你
牽掛的是紅著眼的你
放心不下也是孤獨的你
數著片片的白雲 我離開了你
卻把寸寸的相思 我留給了你
牽掛的是紅著眼的你
放心不下也是愛哭的你
數著片片的楓葉 我離開了你
卻把寸寸的芳心 我留給了你
牽掛的是遠離著的你
放心不下也是孤獨的你
數著片片的楓葉 我離開了你
卻把寸寸的芳心 我留給了你
牽掛的是遠離著的你
放心不下也是孤獨的你
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常常從家裡返回高雄的時候想起這首歌
還有人聽過芝麻與龍演的歌嗎?
那是屬於我的民歌...
http://laker168.myweb.hinet.net/0598/data01.htm
http://blog.sina.com.tw/5785/article.php?pbgid=5785&entryid=8848
我找不到這首的音樂
2006年11月17日 星期五
Nov 7. 我最想訪問的人—林懷民
這個禮拜就請各位想想期中的報告，拜訪一位你最想訪問的人，想想看你想拜訪誰?為什麼想訪問他?接著就介紹他及他的資料讓大家知道。你想訪問的人必須讓你產生想訪問他的熱望，建立大家在這方面的體驗與經驗，對象必須是大家熟知的所謂名人，而且必須是親自訪問到。
This week I am going to talk about the person that I wanted to interview. Given a brief review of this person and express why I want to interview this person.
As soon as I heard this homework, the very only person I can think of is the dancer —Lin Whi-Ming(林懷民) who established Cloud-gate in 1973. Since I have always been someone who doesn’t get in craze of anyone or anything, it’s hard for me to think of anyone else I wanted to meet in person so badly.
Mr. Lin is the art conductor of Cloud-gate – who got pretty famous recent years because his art pieces and performances are being recommended around the world. Rewarded by the國際芭蕾雜誌 as the年度人物, by歐洲舞蹈雜誌 as the 二十世紀編舞名家, and got on 2005年亞洲英雄榜in the America Magazine Times. The circuit performance has made Cloud Gate famous as well as Lin, but all these did not change Lin as the same boy he used to be whom love dancing so much.
The first time ever for Mr. Lin to get to approached to dancing was the movie “The Red Shoes”, he soon fall in love with it and asked his family and friends to watch it with him over and over again. In the movie, the dancer in red shoe couldn’t stop dancing, one asked her: “what is your life for? Living?” “No, dancing!” the girl answered. These scenes grab Lin’s heart and fall deeply in love with dancing. Soon his brother found all the slippers in his house all worn out because Lin had worn them as dancing shoes and dance and dance all day long. And that was the year which he got his very own dancing shoes made by his mother.
Lin’s got his popularity in a young age as a writer, but after he graduated from university in majoring journalism, he went to study in the US and that’s when he started learning modern dance.
Starting in a small studio, Mr. Lin established Cloud Gate in Taiwan at the age of 26, year 1973. He worked hard in creating new and remixes of traditional elements into the art, and eventually forms a new style of his own. Moreover, after he got his approval in the public, he did not stop in the same style of creating new arts, instead, he moved onto trying new materials and formulas into his dancing art work, such as calligraphy and Ti-chi, and that has definitely brought a whole new wonder and enjoyment to us all.
Lin impress me first by his art work, later got me interested into knowing more about him. One important thing is, it seems to be odd to be a dancer in this society, we questioned about how anyone could earn a living by dancing. Especially, it’s rare for man to become dancer, since I was little; I never had a boy in my dance studio. How did Lin leave all the traditional thinking logic behind and know exactly what he wanted and went for it? I believe it must have been a great fight and struggle for Lin or for anyone to break the unspoken rule of what we can’t do, and actually pursue it as a dream of life.
As I read he biography, I asked myself: is it that I am lack of the power and motive to pursue my dream or even worse, that I don’t even know what I wanted for life? How will I answer the same question asked to the dancer in red shoes:
“what is your life for?”. (此生為何而來?)
Am I able to answer that? I thought…….
This is the thing I wish to know about Lin, how did he search for his live time devotion? What can we do to get the motive to seize our chance for dreams to come true?
This week I am going to talk about the person that I wanted to interview. Given a brief review of this person and express why I want to interview this person.
As soon as I heard this homework, the very only person I can think of is the dancer —Lin Whi-Ming(林懷民) who established Cloud-gate in 1973. Since I have always been someone who doesn’t get in craze of anyone or anything, it’s hard for me to think of anyone else I wanted to meet in person so badly.
Mr. Lin is the art conductor of Cloud-gate – who got pretty famous recent years because his art pieces and performances are being recommended around the world. Rewarded by the國際芭蕾雜誌 as the年度人物, by歐洲舞蹈雜誌 as the 二十世紀編舞名家, and got on 2005年亞洲英雄榜in the America Magazine Times. The circuit performance has made Cloud Gate famous as well as Lin, but all these did not change Lin as the same boy he used to be whom love dancing so much.
The first time ever for Mr. Lin to get to approached to dancing was the movie “The Red Shoes”, he soon fall in love with it and asked his family and friends to watch it with him over and over again. In the movie, the dancer in red shoe couldn’t stop dancing, one asked her: “what is your life for? Living?” “No, dancing!” the girl answered. These scenes grab Lin’s heart and fall deeply in love with dancing. Soon his brother found all the slippers in his house all worn out because Lin had worn them as dancing shoes and dance and dance all day long. And that was the year which he got his very own dancing shoes made by his mother.
Lin’s got his popularity in a young age as a writer, but after he graduated from university in majoring journalism, he went to study in the US and that’s when he started learning modern dance.
Starting in a small studio, Mr. Lin established Cloud Gate in Taiwan at the age of 26, year 1973. He worked hard in creating new and remixes of traditional elements into the art, and eventually forms a new style of his own. Moreover, after he got his approval in the public, he did not stop in the same style of creating new arts, instead, he moved onto trying new materials and formulas into his dancing art work, such as calligraphy and Ti-chi, and that has definitely brought a whole new wonder and enjoyment to us all.
Lin impress me first by his art work, later got me interested into knowing more about him. One important thing is, it seems to be odd to be a dancer in this society, we questioned about how anyone could earn a living by dancing. Especially, it’s rare for man to become dancer, since I was little; I never had a boy in my dance studio. How did Lin leave all the traditional thinking logic behind and know exactly what he wanted and went for it? I believe it must have been a great fight and struggle for Lin or for anyone to break the unspoken rule of what we can’t do, and actually pursue it as a dream of life.
As I read he biography, I asked myself: is it that I am lack of the power and motive to pursue my dream or even worse, that I don’t even know what I wanted for life? How will I answer the same question asked to the dancer in red shoes:
“what is your life for?”. (此生為何而來?)
Am I able to answer that? I thought…….
This is the thing I wish to know about Lin, how did he search for his live time devotion? What can we do to get the motive to seize our chance for dreams to come true?
The Sweetest Days 有感
The Sweetest Days - Vanessa Williams
You and I in this moment
Holding the night so close
Hanging on, still unbroken
While outside the thunder rolls
Listen now, you can hear our heartbeat
Warm against life's bitter cold
These are the days
The sweetest days we'll know
There are times that scare me
We rattle the house like the wind
Both of us so unbending
We battle the fear within
All the while, life is rushing by us
Hold it now and don't let go
These are the days
The sweetest days we'll know
So we'll whisper a dream here in the darkness
Watching the stars till they're gone
And when even the memories have all faded away
These days go on and on
Listen now, you can hear our heartbeats
Hold me now and don't let go
These are the days
The sweetest days we'll know
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從文院下課的公車上,廣播中播放著這首歌...
我一直很喜歡這段:
so we'll whisper a dream, here in the darkness
watching the stars till they're gone
And when even the memories have all faded away
These days go on and on
珍貴的回憶就是在黑暗中悄聲的訴說心裡白天沒敢說出的夢想
就這樣聊啊聊的到天亮
就算有一天這些回憶漸漸漸漸被時間磨蝕,色彩褪去
然而這些貴的回憶卻不遠,因為
未來的日子依舊有你 相伴直到永遠永遠
有什麼像這些Sweetest Days呢?
You and I in this moment
Holding the night so close
Hanging on, still unbroken
While outside the thunder rolls
Listen now, you can hear our heartbeat
Warm against life's bitter cold
These are the days
The sweetest days we'll know
There are times that scare me
We rattle the house like the wind
Both of us so unbending
We battle the fear within
All the while, life is rushing by us
Hold it now and don't let go
These are the days
The sweetest days we'll know
So we'll whisper a dream here in the darkness
Watching the stars till they're gone
And when even the memories have all faded away
These days go on and on
Listen now, you can hear our heartbeats
Hold me now and don't let go
These are the days
The sweetest days we'll know
=========================================
從文院下課的公車上,廣播中播放著這首歌...
我一直很喜歡這段:
so we'll whisper a dream, here in the darkness
watching the stars till they're gone
And when even the memories have all faded away
These days go on and on
珍貴的回憶就是在黑暗中悄聲的訴說心裡白天沒敢說出的夢想
就這樣聊啊聊的到天亮
就算有一天這些回憶漸漸漸漸被時間磨蝕,色彩褪去
然而這些貴的回憶卻不遠,因為
未來的日子依舊有你 相伴直到永遠永遠
有什麼像這些Sweetest Days呢?
2006年11月10日 星期五
給有女朋友的男生們~
信箱文章...
給有女朋友的男生們~
01. 在向新朋友介紹女友時，請摟著她的腰，而不是站在一旁用手指點。
02. 在街上遇見美女凝視時間不超過5秒，並迅速指出那位美女與她相比較的美中不足。
03. 如果她做錯了事，心裡已經很難過，請主動承擔起你應該甚至不應該承擔的責任。
04. 聽女友話的男人才會有出息，所以，你要乖乖聽她的話。
05. 她可以欺負你，但你絕對不可以欺負她，因為她雖然欺負你，但每次有什麼好東西，她第一個想到的就是你。
06. 要是她朝你哭，你要不厭其煩地哄她，直到她破涕為笑。
07. 把她的照片貼到錢包、手機…一切經常看到的地方。
08. 離開她絕對不超過十天以上。
09. 在她的朋友面前，希望你可以表現的比平時更疼愛她和緊張她的樣子。
10. 大男人不等於霸道。
11. 溫柔不等於沒主見。
12. 瀟灑不等於沒交代。
13. 不要老是在她問「去哪裡比較好？」，「吃什麼？」等等的時候說「隨便」，這不等於是你在遷就她，只表示你沒心思搭理她。
14. 要經常對她說「我愛你」，否則她會假設你不愛她。
15. 永遠不要在公眾場合對她呼呼吼吼，又或是撇下她一人。
16. 她做錯事情的時候教訓她不要緊，最重要的是要在那之後哄她。
17. 發脾氣時不要不理她，不要給她時間讓她冷靜，其實她完全不需要時間冷靜。
18. 可以陪自己的朋友，但一定要重色輕友。
19. 在她想你時，擠出時間跟她約會。
20. 看她的眼神專注無比。
21. 說話的語氣情深意長。
22. 能做到客觀地看到其他優秀的女孩，但主觀認為她才是最好。
23. 有女孩和你說話時，你要拉著她的手，如果她恰巧不在身邊，那麼請你跟她們保持距離。
24. 過馬路時牽她的手。
25. 要懂得珍惜和她在一起的每分鐘。
26. 就算再忙，每天不忘打一個問候的電話。
27. 要常常唱情歌給她聽。
28. 兩個人都有發火的權利，但不能同一天，如果哪一天她發火了，那你就不可以發火了。
29. 她生活不順心，你要循循善誘，幫忙分析，提出建設性方案若干。
30. 要非常愛你的女友。
31. 留意其他女生不得超過5秒，看同一女生累積不得超過5次。
32. 即使全世界的人都不相信她，你也要無條件相信她，因為她也會同樣對你。
33. 她穿了好看的衣服，你要衷心讚美。
34. 不抽菸，一經發現立刻開除。
35. 與女友吵架每次陳述不得超過3分鐘（含），因量不得超過20分貝（含）。
36. 要加強鍛鍊，強健身體，一口氣抱她上五樓。
37. 在她心情糟透，蠻橫發脾氣時，要抱抱她，而不是和她理論。
38. 希望不會出現手機沒電，而她又沒有其他辦法聯繫到你的現象，如果能頻頻主動打電話告訴她「我想妳了。」並隨時稟報行蹤則更好。
39. 她身上有許多缺點，她已經夠苦惱了，請不必隨時向她提醒。
40. 女友不講理是撒嬌不是撒野。
41. 她所有的事情都好想跟你分享，雖然你不一定會明白但是希望你會裝做你在聽。
42. 最重要的一點：要永遠認為女友是對的，因為，她是最愛你的。
給有女朋友的男生們~
01. 在向新朋友介紹女友時，請摟著她的腰，而不是站在一旁用手指點。
02. 在街上遇見美女凝視時間不超過5秒，並迅速指出那位美女與她相比較的美中不足。
03. 如果她做錯了事，心裡已經很難過，請主動承擔起你應該甚至不應該承擔的責任。
04. 聽女友話的男人才會有出息，所以，你要乖乖聽她的話。
05. 她可以欺負你，但你絕對不可以欺負她，因為她雖然欺負你，但每次有什麼好東西，她第一個想到的就是你。
06. 要是她朝你哭，你要不厭其煩地哄她，直到她破涕為笑。
07. 把她的照片貼到錢包、手機…一切經常看到的地方。
08. 離開她絕對不超過十天以上。
09. 在她的朋友面前，希望你可以表現的比平時更疼愛她和緊張她的樣子。
10. 大男人不等於霸道。
11. 溫柔不等於沒主見。
12. 瀟灑不等於沒交代。
13. 不要老是在她問「去哪裡比較好？」，「吃什麼？」等等的時候說「隨便」，這不等於是你在遷就她，只表示你沒心思搭理她。
14. 要經常對她說「我愛你」，否則她會假設你不愛她。
15. 永遠不要在公眾場合對她呼呼吼吼，又或是撇下她一人。
16. 她做錯事情的時候教訓她不要緊，最重要的是要在那之後哄她。
17. 發脾氣時不要不理她，不要給她時間讓她冷靜，其實她完全不需要時間冷靜。
18. 可以陪自己的朋友，但一定要重色輕友。
19. 在她想你時，擠出時間跟她約會。
20. 看她的眼神專注無比。
21. 說話的語氣情深意長。
22. 能做到客觀地看到其他優秀的女孩，但主觀認為她才是最好。
23. 有女孩和你說話時，你要拉著她的手，如果她恰巧不在身邊，那麼請你跟她們保持距離。
24. 過馬路時牽她的手。
25. 要懂得珍惜和她在一起的每分鐘。
26. 就算再忙，每天不忘打一個問候的電話。
27. 要常常唱情歌給她聽。
28. 兩個人都有發火的權利，但不能同一天，如果哪一天她發火了，那你就不可以發火了。
29. 她生活不順心，你要循循善誘，幫忙分析，提出建設性方案若干。
30. 要非常愛你的女友。
31. 留意其他女生不得超過5秒，看同一女生累積不得超過5次。
32. 即使全世界的人都不相信她，你也要無條件相信她，因為她也會同樣對你。
33. 她穿了好看的衣服，你要衷心讚美。
34. 不抽菸，一經發現立刻開除。
35. 與女友吵架每次陳述不得超過3分鐘（含），因量不得超過20分貝（含）。
36. 要加強鍛鍊，強健身體，一口氣抱她上五樓。
37. 在她心情糟透，蠻橫發脾氣時，要抱抱她，而不是和她理論。
38. 希望不會出現手機沒電，而她又沒有其他辦法聯繫到你的現象，如果能頻頻主動打電話告訴她「我想妳了。」並隨時稟報行蹤則更好。
39. 她身上有許多缺點，她已經夠苦惱了，請不必隨時向她提醒。
40. 女友不講理是撒嬌不是撒野。
41. 她所有的事情都好想跟你分享，雖然你不一定會明白但是希望你會裝做你在聽。
42. 最重要的一點：要永遠認為女友是對的，因為，她是最愛你的。
Nov 10. Single Women Everywhere. (draft)
Single Women Everywhere
In this new generation, walking into marriage has become an option. Unlike in the old days, people around you start matching young ladies in their twenties and begin to get really worried for them or put pressure on women when they are going to their thirties. What’s to be worried about if women don’t get married? What has changed people’s point of view toward this not going into marriage question? In the following paragraphs, I will analyze these questions in two main parts: first by comparing some of the obvious benefits of staying single to getting married; and later by pointing out the difference of the world today with the prier generation to understand the reason how we had made staying single an available option.
First of all, there are plenty of benefits of staying single. On one hand, staying single means women are able to plan their own life span without any obstacles or the need of considering what’s best for their partner or the children they have as a whole. Although having a partner provides women with someone to share life burden and stress when they feel lost and indecisive about the future. However, intimate friends and family can take or replace this character and give the same support and advice needed. Also, lack of commitment is often said to be the downside of staying single while dating or cohabitating with someone; however, a word of commitment may turn into a more harmful lies when marriage fall apart. Moreover, having someone around and close in our home to ease loneliness may be dangerous. As a matter of fact, the occurrence of family abuse would harm women even greater since we had trust in this man, believing he will give us protection and treasure you like the way you have treasured him. Therefore, staying single not only provides women with more freedom, but also lower their risk of tying oneself with a commitment to the wrong guy.
Beyond this point, difference in the economical situation and social acceptance opens the possibilities for women to decide whether to remain a single noble or to create a happy family. As the result of the technology revolution, women are free from homes being the labor of baring children and doing housework to be able to devote themselves to the labor supply allies. As a mater of fact, double salary entry increase the ability for families to support both their boy and girl to higher education; this enables women to compete with men because they have the same ability to comprehend those job that once their ability weren’t able to meet. Also, supported by the legislation and regulations, sex discrimination to job opportunity or unfair wage is greatly avoided. Nonetheless, social acceptance of cohabitation and divorce provide women with a partner when they choose to have one as accompany, and the choice of walking out of the marriage again. Consequently, these provide women with the choice of whether to walk into a marriage or not according to one’ own free will.
To summarize, I believe it is always best for people to make decision according to their won free will. Thus whether one is luck to find someone special and decided to form a family or is much happier to live a life alone, we should be equally glad, show equally appreciation and give equally blessing for them with our full heart.
In this new generation, walking into marriage has become an option. Unlike in the old days, people around you start matching young ladies in their twenties and begin to get really worried for them or put pressure on women when they are going to their thirties. What’s to be worried about if women don’t get married? What has changed people’s point of view toward this not going into marriage question? In the following paragraphs, I will analyze these questions in two main parts: first by comparing some of the obvious benefits of staying single to getting married; and later by pointing out the difference of the world today with the prier generation to understand the reason how we had made staying single an available option.
First of all, there are plenty of benefits of staying single. On one hand, staying single means women are able to plan their own life span without any obstacles or the need of considering what’s best for their partner or the children they have as a whole. Although having a partner provides women with someone to share life burden and stress when they feel lost and indecisive about the future. However, intimate friends and family can take or replace this character and give the same support and advice needed. Also, lack of commitment is often said to be the downside of staying single while dating or cohabitating with someone; however, a word of commitment may turn into a more harmful lies when marriage fall apart. Moreover, having someone around and close in our home to ease loneliness may be dangerous. As a matter of fact, the occurrence of family abuse would harm women even greater since we had trust in this man, believing he will give us protection and treasure you like the way you have treasured him. Therefore, staying single not only provides women with more freedom, but also lower their risk of tying oneself with a commitment to the wrong guy.
Beyond this point, difference in the economical situation and social acceptance opens the possibilities for women to decide whether to remain a single noble or to create a happy family. As the result of the technology revolution, women are free from homes being the labor of baring children and doing housework to be able to devote themselves to the labor supply allies. As a mater of fact, double salary entry increase the ability for families to support both their boy and girl to higher education; this enables women to compete with men because they have the same ability to comprehend those job that once their ability weren’t able to meet. Also, supported by the legislation and regulations, sex discrimination to job opportunity or unfair wage is greatly avoided. Nonetheless, social acceptance of cohabitation and divorce provide women with a partner when they choose to have one as accompany, and the choice of walking out of the marriage again. Consequently, these provide women with the choice of whether to walk into a marriage or not according to one’ own free will.
To summarize, I believe it is always best for people to make decision according to their won free will. Thus whether one is luck to find someone special and decided to form a family or is much happier to live a life alone, we should be equally glad, show equally appreciation and give equally blessing for them with our full heart.
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