Nov 10. Single Women Everywhere. (draft)

Single Women Everywhere

In this new generation, walking into marriage has become an option. Unlike in the old days, people around you start matching young ladies in their twenties and begin to get really worried for them or put pressure on women when they are going to their thirties. What’s to be worried about if women don’t get married? What has changed people’s point of view toward this not going into marriage question? In the following paragraphs, I will analyze these questions in two main parts: first by comparing some of the obvious benefits of staying single to getting married; and later by pointing out the difference of the world today with the prier generation to understand the reason how we had made staying single an available option.

First of all, there are plenty of benefits of staying single. On one hand, staying single means women are able to plan their own life span without any obstacles or the need of considering what’s best for their partner or the children they have as a whole. Although having a partner provides women with someone to share life burden and stress when they feel lost and indecisive about the future. However, intimate friends and family can take or replace this character and give the same support and advice needed. Also, lack of commitment is often said to be the downside of staying single while dating or cohabitating with someone; however, a word of commitment may turn into a more harmful lies when marriage fall apart. Moreover, having someone around and close in our home to ease loneliness may be dangerous. As a matter of fact, the occurrence of family abuse would harm women even greater since we had trust in this man, believing he will give us protection and treasure you like the way you have treasured him. Therefore, staying single not only provides women with more freedom, but also lower their risk of tying oneself with a commitment to the wrong guy.

Beyond this point, difference in the economical situation and social acceptance opens the possibilities for women to decide whether to remain a single noble or to create a happy family. As the result of the technology revolution, women are free from homes being the labor of baring children and doing housework to be able to devote themselves to the labor supply allies. As a mater of fact, double salary entry increase the ability for families to support both their boy and girl to higher education; this enables women to compete with men because they have the same ability to comprehend those job that once their ability weren’t able to meet. Also, supported by the legislation and regulations, sex discrimination to job opportunity or unfair wage is greatly avoided. Nonetheless, social acceptance of cohabitation and divorce provide women with a partner when they choose to have one as accompany, and the choice of walking out of the marriage again. Consequently, these provide women with the choice of whether to walk into a marriage or not according to one’ own free will.

To summarize, I believe it is always best for people to make decision according to their won free will. Thus whether one is luck to find someone special and decided to form a family or is much happier to live a life alone, we should be equally glad, show equally appreciation and give equally blessing for them with our full heart.